Why Your Light Attracts Narcissistic Predators

If you’ve ever found yourself asking, “Why do I keep attracting toxic people?” — especially narcissists — you’re not alone.
The answer is both spiritual and psychological: it’s your light.

Your compassion.
Your empathy.
Your healing energy.

You see, narcissistic predators are deeply fractured souls. They’re like moths drawn to the flame — except, in this case, the flame is you.

The Allure of Empathy and Authenticity

Narcissists are masters of wearing masks, but behind the facade lies deep insecurity and emotional emptiness. They crave what they cannot create: authentic connection and genuine emotional depth.
When you walk into a room with open-hearted energy, they feel it immediately.

Your light represents:

• The love they desperately seek but cannot sustain.
• The emotional nourishment they try to steal.
• The authenticity that exposes their falsehood.

In short: your light threatens them and feeds them — all at once.

You’re Not “Too Sensitive” — You’re Highly Tuned

So many empaths and highly sensitive people have been told they’re “too much” or “too sensitive.”
But in truth, your sensitivity is your superpower.

The problem arises when narcissists detect this superpower and try to manipulate it for their own gain.
They test boundaries, twist your compassion, and play on your natural desire to heal.

But remember: your light is not the problem. Their predation is.

Recognizing the Pattern is Step One

The moment you become conscious of this pattern, you take back your power. You stop internalizing their dysfunction and start protecting your energy.

Ask yourself:

• Am I feeling drained instead of energized in this connection?
• Am I constantly second-guessing myself around this person?
• Do I feel like my boundaries are slipping away?

If you answer yes, it’s time to reclaim your light.

Protecting Your Energy Without Dimming Your Light

Here’s the good news: you don’t have to become cold or guarded to protect yourself.
You can learn to shine smarter, not smaller.

🌟 Set clear, unapologetic boundaries.
🌟 Trust your intuition — it’s there for a reason.
🌟 Surround yourself with people who pour into you, not drain you.
🌟 Educate yourself deeply on narcissistic tactics so you stay empowered.